thinking it over

After the stormy parts of my relationship have calmed down..I'm just thinking my life over. The next direction I want to go in, the next job, the next level of success. I hope my relationship will continue to be a positive factor in the scheme of things. So far it has been kinda of a distraction, and then a bit of motivation. My partner and I have talked about building a future together and I'm optimistic about that. There is so much that I enjoy about our relationship. I can't expect it to be perfect, just a positive force in my life. I'm going to continue doing my part.

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